Ngokubhalwa nguGqirha Linda Meyer
Uxinezeleko luyanda kumakhaya kulo lonke eli loMzantsi Afrika nanjengoko abafundi bakaGrade 12 beqalisa isigaba sokugqibela esibalulekileyo ukuya kwiimviwo zabo zokugqibela. Eli xesha alilo lokuhlola imfundo kunye nesigaba sokutshintsha kuphela, kodwa lixesha elizaliswe ngamahlandinyuka, eyoyikisayo kunye nexesha loxinzelelo kubafundi kunye nabazali. Abafundi bantywiliselwa kwizinto zokufunda xeshikweni abazali bejamelene nokubonelela ngenkxaso eyaneleyo ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka ngokugqithiseleyo.
Kwaye, xa kuqwalaselwa imeko eyahlukileyo yentlalo-qoqosho eMzantsi Afrika, amakhaya amaninzi ajongene noxinzelelo olukhethekileyo.
“Abazali balwa ngamandla ukuqinisekisa impumelelo yabantwana babo kobu bunzima,” utshilo uGqirha Linda Meyer, umlawuli weRosebank College ephantsi kweIndependent Institute of Education, wongeze ngelithi amaxesha anzima anamhlanje akhulisa le miceli mngeni.
“Iiforam zabazali zizaliswe ngamabali avela kubazali kunye nabagcini babafundi bakaGrade 12, kwakunye nokufuna ukuqonda kunye neengcebiso ezityhila ukungaqiniseki kwabazali ngendlela engcono yokuxhasa nokubakhokela abantwana babo.”
UGqirha Meyer uthi kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezizayo, abazali kufuneka bamkele ezi zinto zilandelayo:
Uthi abazali banokunika inkxaso enentsingiselo ngeendlela ezimbini: ngokuququzelela okusebenzayo, kunye nokuzinza ngokweemvakalelo.
Ukuququzelela okusebenzayo:
Ukuzinzisa iimvakalelo:
IINGCEBISO EZISEBENZAYO KUBAFUNDI
UGqirha Meyer uthi kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinokuthi, ukuba zisetyenziswe kwiiveki ezikhokelela kwiimviwo zokugqibela, zinokwandisa impilo-ntle yabafundi kunye nempumelelo kwizifundo.
Seka isiqhelo:
Imekobume efanelekileyo yokufunda:
Ubuchule bokufunda obusebenzayo:
Amaphepha eemviwo ezidlulileyo:
Nciphisa iziphazamiso:
Izifundo zeqela:
Ukulungiselela usuku lweemviwo:
Funa uncedo xa kuyimfuneko:
Hlala unolwazi:
Ngaphaya kweencwadi:
Ukulungiselela iimviwo zematriki kumalunga nokuzingisa neqhinga njengoko kumalunga nolwazi. Abafundi banokwandisa ngokuzithemba ukusebenza kwabo kwaye bajongane neemviwo ngokucwangcisa, ukugxila kunye nokusebenza, utshilo uGqirha Meyer.
“Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kufuneka sisebenzise ukuguquguquka kunye nokuqonda kubuzali ngeli xesha. Aba bantu baselula, abanobuntu babo obubodwa kunye neendlela zokujongana nezinto, bafuna inkxaso efanelekileyo. Kodwa ngaphaya kwemiceli mngeni yemfundo kunye nokuphumelela, kufuneka siluxabise uhambo kwaye sibhiyozele ukufunda okuqhubekayo, kunye nokomelela kokungabuyi ngamva, nokuba zithini na iziphumo.”
MALUNGA NOGQIRHA LINDA MEYER
UGqirha Linda Meyer nguMlawuli weRosebank College ephantsi kweIndependent Institute of Education kwaye unezikhundla ezininzi zolawulo kwicandelo likarhulumente nelabucala. UGqirha Meyer ulilungu elisebenzayo leBhodi yeSAQA nowayesakuba nguMkomishinala weCCMA. Uneziqinisekiso ezininzi, eziquka uGqirha weFilosofi (RSA), uGqirha woLawulo lweShishini (USA), iMaster of Business Administration (UK), iPost Graduate Diploma kwiManagement Studies (UK), iBachelor of Business Administration, B. Com (Law) kunye nezinye iiDiploma eziliqela kunye neZatifikethi eziPhezulu kunye nezatifikethi zobungcali.